zeekvm.blogg.se - The awakened parent

If they’re not where they’re supposed to be, shouldn’t there be consequences?Īlso, I personally have never used the plan because my children are still too small (my eldest is 6.5 years old) so I am not sure how the X-plan could materialize with this age group.

If you don’t talk about it or ask questions, how do they learn?.

What if using the X-plan becomes habitual?.

" Does the X-plan cripple a kid socially instead of teaching them to stand up to others?".

"Doesn’t the X-plan encourage dishonesty?".

I think this agreement really enables the children to feel safe and secure to share their experiences with their family and to seek help if needed especially since they won't be judged unfavourably.īert Fulks also answers some concerns that parents might have with the X-plan such as: According to Bert Fulks, "the X-plan comes with the agreement that we will pass no judgments and ask no questions (even if he is 10 miles away from where he’s supposed to be).״

One major component of the X-plan is that Bert Fulks' children could share as little or as much of their experience as they want once they have been picked up from the gathering. I also think this plan really promotes unconditional love and open communication with their children. No matter what the children are going through, they could trust their parents wholeheartedly and rely on them for support. I think the X-plan is a great way for parents to show their children that they are on the same team. I’m on my way.”īert Fulks uses the X-plan with his children and says that "it is one of the most loving things we’ve ever given him and it offers him a sense of security and confidence in a world that tends to beat our young people into submission." “, something’s come up and I have to come get you right now.”